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Happy & Sad & Everything True

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"A charming, entertaining, and true book...I would follow Dee's advice any time." —Gayle Forman, author of Frankie & Bug and Not Nothing

With charm and sincerity reminiscent of Judy Blume and Rebecca Stead, this debut middle grade novel is a "compassionate" (Kirkus Reviews), hopeful story about a girl finding herself through secretly giving out advice to classmates.
Back when Dee and Juniper were still friends, Dee never hid in the bathroom. Now, at the beginning of sixth grade, Dee finds herself there often. The dripping faucet is annoying, and there are other places she'd rather be—like at home and in her room with her cat, Norman. But at least Dee is safe from overenthusiastic teachers and having to see Juniper walking through the halls with her new friends. Dee would rather be alone than witness that.

But it turns out Dee isn't the only one hiding from something. There are kids all over the school worrying in secret and needing someone to talk to. After Dee helps a second grader with spelling advice, more students begin coming to Dee with their problems. It turns out she's a good listener, and she likes helping people. And when she starts receiving mysterious notes, it seems someone out there wants to be her friend—if only they would reveal themselves.
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    • Publisher's Weekly

      September 2, 2024
      Now that they’re in different sixth grade classes, Desdemona “Dee” Hiller worries about her friendship with bestie Juniper, who’s grown distant following an embarrassing incident involving Dee’s mother. While hiding in the bathroom during “snack and stretch” time, counting beige tiles and thinking about Juniper, Dee is interrupted by a noise coming from the grate: her classmate Harry, upset about his father, is kicking the grate in the boys’ bathroom. The two start talking through the opening, and Dee offers support and a listening ear. Demand for Dee’s impromptu therapy sessions soon spreads throughout the school, and as she begins helping other kids, she realizes that she has “no room to feel lonely,” despite still longing to reconnect with Juniper. When Dee starts receiving notes from an anonymous admirer, she wonders if it’s Juniper trying to mend their friendship, prompting Dee to uncover the identity of the sender. A persuasive blend of observant and oblivious stream-of-consciousness riffs punctuates Dee’s first-person narration, throughout which debut author Thayer explores summarily developed school-based elements and subplots. Juniper, Dee, and Harry read as white. Ages 10–up. Agent: Alexander Slater, Sanford J. Greenburger Assoc.

    • School Library Journal

      Starred review from January 1, 2025

      Gr 5-7-Prolific aural expert Kelly empathically ciphers Thayer's debut novel with spunky charm, enhancing protagonist Dee's struggles with inspiring tenacity and celebrating Dee's triumphs with humorous delight. Sixth grade is off to a horrible start-bff Juniper is drifting away, while laughing with the whole school at Dee's embarrassing mother with her too-short dress that doesn't cover her lacy, blue-flowered underwear during Parent PE Day. Dee's taken to hiding in the bathroom but finds she's not alone-and maybe her own travails might help others through theirs, from classmate Harry struggling with his own parent, to other kids, both younger and older. While Thayer's narrative occasionally veers toward paralyzing naval-gazing, Kelly's bubbly energy manages to keep listeners actively, entertainingly engaged. VERDICT Kelly convincingly provides a soothing balm to navigating the precarious pitfalls of middle school dramas.

      Copyright 2025 School Library Journal, LLC Used with permission.

    • AudioFile Magazine
      Caitlin Kelly brings authenticity to her narration of this heartwarming debut middle-grade novel. Dee and Juniper were inseparable until sixth grade, but now they're in different classes, and Juniper seems to have found a new group of friends. Feeling isolated, Dee often hides in the bathroom, especially after an embarrassing incident with her mother. It's there she hears someone in the boys' bathroom kicking a grate. Dee strikes up a conversation with Harry about their problems, and they agree to meet again. The next day another student arrives, seeking advice and sparking others to reach out for help. Kelly masterfully captures the triumphs and challenges of this awkward age with perfectly timed nuance. She transitions seamlessly between the children's voices, making each distinct. S.K.G. © AudioFile 2025, Portland, Maine

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